A. The initial part of the interview is found in John 3:1–12: Now there was a man of the Pharisees, named Nicodemus, a ruler of the Jews: the same came unto him by night, and said to him, Rabbi, we know that you are a teacher come from God; for no one can do these signs that you do, except God be with him. Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto you, Except one be born anew, he cannot see the kingdom of God. Nicodemus said unto him, How can a man be born when he is old? can he enter a second time into his mother’s womb, and be born? Jesus answered, Verily, verily, I say unto you, Except one be born of water and the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God! That which is born of the flesh is flesh; and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit. Marvel not that I said unto you, Ye must be born anew. The wind blows where it will, and you hear the voice thereof, but know not whence it comes, and whither it goes: so is every one that is born of the Spirit. Nicodemus answered and said unto him, How can these things be? Jesus answered and said unto him, Are you the teacher of Israel, and understand not these things? Verily, verily, I say unto you, We speak that which we know, and bear witness of that which we have seen; and ye receive not our witness. If I told you earthly things and ye believe not, how shall ye believe if I tell you heavenly things?
Several things can be deduced concerning Nicodemus from these few statements that we have. First, we find that he was a Pharisee, which means he was a rabbi. In order to understand why this is important to this interview, it should be noted what Pharisaic Judaism believed. According to the Pharisees, “All Israel has a share in the world to come.” Another part of Pharisaic theology stated: “Abraham sits at the gates of Gehenna to save any Israelite consigned thereto.” So, according to Pharisaism, to be born a Jew physically was enough for entrance into the Kingdom. While Gentiles had to convert to Judaism, Jews themselves, by virtue of being born Jews, qualified for entrance into the Kingdom. A second thing that the passage notes is that Nicodemus was a ruler of the Jews. This means he was a member of the Sanhedrin.
As the interview began, Yeshua clearly stated to Nicodemus that, “Except a man be born again, he cannot see the Kingdom of God.” Now it should be carefully noted how Nicodemus responded, for he said, “How can a man be born when he is old?” Nicodemus did not merely ask about being born again. What was confusing to him was how was it possible for a man to be born again when he had reached the age of a senior citizen. For if the question was merely on the experience of being born again, the age would be irrelevant. Nicodemus seemed to understand something about being born again, but what confused him was how this was possible when he was old.
To fully understand why he posed the question as he did, it is necessary to understand that in Pharisaic Judaism, there were six different ways of being born again. Nicodemus qualified for four of the six ways. The two ways for which he was not qualified were: First, when Gentiles converted to Judaism, they were said to be born again. Since Nicodemus was not a Gentile, he could not qualify in this manner.
A second way he did not qualify was to be crowned king, for when a man was crowned king, he was said to be born again. Nothing is said about Nicodemus having been of the House of David, and hence, he was not of royal lineage.
But there were four other ways to be born again, and Nicodemus qualified for all four. First, when a Jewish boy becomes bar mitzvahed at the age of thirteen, he is said to be born again. At that age, he subjects himself to the Mosaic Law and is responsible for his own sins. Since Nicodemus was beyond the age of thirteen, he had already experienced his bar mitzvah.
A second way was by marriage, for when a Jew married, he was said to be born again. Although nothing is said about Nicodemus’ wife, it has been clearly stated that he was a member of the Sanhedrin. One of the rules for becoming a member of the Sanhedrin was that one must be married and so we know from this that Nicodemus was married.
Thirdly, another way that a Jew could be born again was to be ordained as a rabbi. Since Nicodemus was a Pharisee, he had been ordained as a rabbi, and was born again in a third way.
The final way to be born again in Judaism was to become the head of a rabbinical school. In verse 10, Jesus said to Nicodemus that he was “the teacher of Israel.” The one who was the head of rabbinical school was always referred to as the teacher of Israel. Hence, Nicodemus was also the head of a rabbinical school.
The point, then, is this: Nicodemus had undergone every process available in Judaism to be born again. There was no other way available in Judaism and so the only way he could see being born again at his age was to re-enter his mothers’ womb and start the process all over again.
It was to this problem of Pharisaic theology that Yeshua addressed Himself. He clearly told Nicodemus that, “Except a man be born of water and the Spirit, he cannot enter the kingdom of God.” To be born of water was a Jewish expression for physical birth. According to Pharisaic theology, being born of water, or being born physically as a Jew, was sufficient for entrance into the Kingdom. But Jesus told him that being born of water was not enough, for “one must be born of water and the Spirit to enter into the Kingdom of God.” In other words, one must be born both physically and spiritually, for physical birth by itself is not sufficient to provide entrance into the Kingdom. He explained this further when He said, “That which is born of the flesh is flesh; and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit.”
Here, He again clearly explained the two kinds of births. To be born of water is to be born of the flesh and that which is born of the flesh is flesh. This birth is not sufficient reason to enter the Kingdom. There must be a spiritual birth for one to be able to enter into the Kingdom of God. So Nicodemus’ being born a Jew, was insufficient; he must have a spiritual rebirth to really be born again in the way that is required.
Excerpt from Dr Arnold Fruchtenbaum:
MBS016 NICODEMUS: A RABBI’S QUEST: Pg 4-5